{"id":127,"date":"2009-08-16T23:01:55","date_gmt":"2009-08-17T06:01:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/chineseeinstein.wordpress.com\/?p=127"},"modified":"2009-08-16T23:01:55","modified_gmt":"2009-08-17T06:01:55","slug":"pdym-reflection","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/jason-fu.com\/blog\/pdym-reflection\/","title":{"rendered":"PDYM reflection"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Alright. This post is very not-fluent. Reader beware.<\/p>\n<p>I know it&#8217;s a little late for this, but honestly, I was looking through the PDYM notes and memories came flooding back. Here&#8217;s a few things that caught my eye:<\/p>\n<p>On the first page, I wrote in big, bold letters:<\/p>\n<p>IDEAL vs. ACTUAL<\/p>\n<p>I guess Pastor Doug was saying something about the ideal leader and the actual leader.<\/p>\n<p>I saw a bunch of things that said &#8220;suprise!&#8221; and the ten steps to living your life.<\/p>\n<p>1. God gets your attention.<\/p>\n<p>2. You say, &#8220;Here I am.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>3. You see a deed.<\/p>\n<p>4. Suprise! God wants you to meet that need.<\/p>\n<p>5. You doubt. &#8220;Who am I?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>6. God ansers, &#8220;I will be with you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>7. You do the possible.<\/p>\n<p>8. God does the impossible.<\/p>\n<p>9. You don&#8217;t waste your life.<\/p>\n<p>10. God is pleased.<\/p>\n<p>These ten steps are reinforced by three basic guidelines.<\/p>\n<p>1. Be willing to be surprised.<\/p>\n<p>2. Surprise your leaders.<\/p>\n<p>3. Surprise! You are a leader.<\/p>\n<p>The overall goal of this is to become who you (already) are!<\/p>\n<p>There were a few other things I remembered&#8230; \u00a0this kind of striked me and stuck with me. It is this:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Leaders are learners. Once you stop leading, you stop learning. Once you stop learning, you stop leading. &#8221; Or something along the lines of that.<\/p>\n<p>I haven&#8217;t had much thought about this particular statement, but it has stuck with me, and I don&#8217;t know why.<\/p>\n<p>One last thing: the late-night talks.<\/p>\n<p>I think this is actually the best part of the whole trip. We really got a chance to open up to each other and to deal with our problems. \u00a0I got a lot of problems solved there.<\/p>\n<p>And the other days where the seniors went downstairs to talk&#8230; the non-seniors from their room came up to our room. \u00a0Ah. This was the greatest time. We stayed up past 4:30 after people fell asleep, talking about church and generally, life.<\/p>\n<p>What happened in those rooms after hours is what I want (get your minds out of the gutter). I want that fellowship. \u00a0I want deep, meaningful talks with my brothers of Christ in places where people won&#8217;t care. Unfortunately, there are a few things that prevent this from happening, such as the separation of households and restraint of time.<\/p>\n<p>Well, anyway, PDYM was good. Great, even. If you could have gone but didn&#8217;t, you definitely missed out. I&#8217;m sorry.<\/p>\n<p>Goodnight.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Alright. This post is very not-fluent. Reader beware. I know it&#8217;s a little late for this, but honestly, I was looking through the PDYM notes and memories came flooding back. 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